First of all, this post is not about being offensive to any person, groups, races, etc.
How do we evaluate or determine between good and bad? Of course, the answer is simple; good things are good while bad things are bad. For example, if I assaulted (sexually) one of your gorgeous sister (if you have one), it’s absolutely a bad thing and I might spend the rest of my life behind the bar. But, what if your sister is my girlfriend (which means we are not yet married) and we have had some great intercourse together. Now, what is your perception? Is it a good thing or absolutely a bad thing?
I believe, if I put a poll in this post, it would not be a 100% ‘Yes’ to say this intercourse is a bad thing. Yet, it is unlikely easy for the majority to be against this issue if this question is raised to all groups of people regardless their religious view or any.
And these days, it is just like I argued before that the majority is not easily going to be against this issue. It has been in reversal order when human are about to determine between good and bad. Wait, this is not about being open-minded nor close-minded but this is about distinguishing the right and wrong which extremely reversing at this moment.
I pointed out this concern is not solely upon the intercourse issue, but this problem is actually happening in every aspects in our lives. If you don’t trust my words, try to look around you and observe what people are doing and judge them. When you are about to give your justification, think about what will others say about it, whether everybody will agree with you or they wouldn’t.
Why actually this happen? Hurm, what about the end of men?
Life is not always favorable. Sometimes, we have to face a reluctant situation which will badly affect our emotions and spirits.
Why should all these happen to us if God really loves His creatures?
Lets look at it this way, a situation between a teacher and his students. At the end of each month, these students will have to sit for exam prepared by their teacher. Most of his students unwillingly have to take each exams because they have no other choices. To make it worse, this teacher really loves to give homeworks for his students each time he got into the class. Some started to hate their teacher for giving tonnes of homeworks plus the monthly tests. Yet, in the end, these students successfully pass the final exam with flying colors because of all those homeworks and exams given by this teacher. Students who hate him at the first point feel bad to act that way before and ask for apologies before thanking their teacher.
I know, it is a mundane and boring story. But who cares?
Back to the story, and implying it to our lives. He always loves to test us which sometimes can be the hardest time in our lives. But merely, the harder the test we get, the more He loves us actually. All we need to do is to always believe that He is always with us and everything that happens around us must have something good behind it. Hikmah. That is the most appropriate word to describe it. And also, we must always be strong to face all the miseries which we could never avoid because they are all fated to us.
Buddy, be strong and pray to Him because no matter what, He is always with us.
One would become a new-unknown person if he/she couldn’t overcome his/her anger. If in real life he/she is a passive person, no one could ever think that if he/she becomes angry, he/she could become a super-massive-black-hole aggresive human being we can ever see. Laughing? Here is a description of what anger is.
Anger is an emotional state that varies in intensity from mild irritation to intense fury and rage
Owh, I would be in trouble if i do not cite the source of this quote. So here is the reference.
See the word intense rage there? That kind of anger falls into the type agressive anger and a possible action for someone who becomes aggressive when he/she is angry is to be destructive. For me, destructive is not only towards tangible things, but also destructive towards intangible things. To remind you, this is not a self-blame which is a passive anger. Most simple example for intangible things’ destruction is one could break a relationship as a result of agressive anger.
Power resides not in being able to strike another, but in being able to keep the self under control when anger arises
This quote seems familiar to us especially Muslims because these words are from Prophet Muhammad S.A.W. But it is not limitedly applies only to Muslims because it can be generally applied towards every human being in this world. The greatest “power” is not to be able to strike another, yet to control anger. Why does it so? Because anger could destroy not only tangible things, yet intagible things too. That means, anger could destroy everything. So, control your anger before any unwanted things happen in your life.
This video is especially to Zul Fahmi Jemaat aka Lahanat. See the guys in the video? Absolutely just like you dude (Lahanat). Birthday wish? I know what is the best wish for you. “May I get a good and gorgeous girlfriend that has name rhymed with me”.
Credits to Dr. Stewart for his lesson about the Continental Drift hypothesis and Theory of Seafloor Spreading. The seven continents that we have today were actually a Pangea, a supercontinent which the Earth had million years ago. It was one single continent back then before the continent was torn apart as suggested by the theory of seafloor spreading.
Not going to talk any further about this theory, but interested about the idea how one supercontinent was drifted into seven different continents.
The concept is just the same if we apply it to other natural occurances around us. Don’t have to go too far, just look at ourselves. Where were we 10 years ago? Went to primary school, having fun with friends, enjoying our childhood times. Before we went to school, our dad or perhaps mom will give us some money to buy food at the canteen during recess time. Or we brought “bekal” prepared by our mom and shared them with friends at school. Remember how we wrote “REHAT” in the middle of our class schedule?. Yeah, that is the second-can’t waited period for us during that good times.
Sitted for UPSR, some of us went to boarding schools, and the rest stayed at daily schools. Few of our good friends during primary school were not together with us anymore. We walked through our current lives from Form 1 to Form 3 and after PMR, few more went to boarding schools for getting flying colors in PMR. Again, our close friends during lower form were not together with us anymore. After SPM, the same things happen. Everyone is walking on his/her own choices in various fields.
We were once together with our old friends, with our families. Yet, as we are getting older, we are getting apart, following our own ways heading to our own future.
First of all, this post is not about being offensive to any person, groups, races, etc.
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